Loving Life 360

There is a question ringing in my heart and I want us to discuss this together. Here it is: WHO IS THE BOY CHILD? I think biology calls him the one with the outstanding Y gene chromosome,  Society calls him the brave one and away from errors, Religion says he is the protector, provider, and defender of the girl child, Family calls him the head above everything and everyone, and so even when he is the tenth child in the presence of nine girls, he is still the head. With so much expected of this single creature, I start to wonder does it mean they are not expected to have emotions or better still not expected to be hurt, abused, betrayed, or bittered?       Every day we keep seeing new NGO’S advocating for the girl child. “hey sweetie if you are abused just let me know and I will handle it”, “who is that animal that did this?”, “I promise you he won’t go unpunished”, “men are so arrogant and selfish and always wanting what’s best for them so we need to be...

Sometimes when it seems to be like we are at our worst moments🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀ and we wish we never existed or did the things we did, I think it would be wise to first take a pause🙋🏻🙋🏻🙋🏻 and count all your blessing one by one. if possible write out your achievements over the past years✍✍✍✍ and remind yourself of how amazing you can be and still are😃😃😃 One little failure is not enough to make you forget the winner that you have always been and will always be. So brace yourself, dust yourself up and find a courage to live again and be that super man😎😎😎 that you are meant to be .........it's all inside you. 🥳🥳🥳 If you are inspired, please leave a comment in the comment box below and please subscribe. Thanks for reading. # Just look deeper # Phavie loves you 😘😘😘

Today just like yesterday is here again but yesterday is gone and forgotten same as the day before, it's never coming back, and soon would be the same as today. All that couldn't be achieved will have to compulsoryly be moved to the day after  and the more the activities are moved the more the days are lost. 😔😔😔 it's usually easy to say "oh that, i will do it tomorrow" but we keep forgetting that tomorrow never actually ends. I almost couldn't believe that July is here but here it is and slowly the year runs by.........🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀ it's morning again 😃😃and you can choose to agree with yourself to start that project, start that business, start that book work e.t.c. Because TIME they say waits for no man.🤩🤩🤩  You can still choose to actualize it tomorrow though but i only wonder when that is.................🤔🤔🤔🤔 # The unending tomorrow  # Phavie loves you 😘😘😘

Have you ever asked the question “why haven't I met the one or why do I always meet with the ones am not OK with ?” If you are in that category then this few words would help. Firstly, s I want you to take off every of such thoughts for a moment and let's talk about you. Now I want you to try and make sense of this question, “am I good enough to marry myself?”💍💍 Sometimes we are too crowded with thoughts of "the one" to come that we forget who we actually are . "We just need a someone who would love us for who we are (which we really don't know🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀), someone who would cause butterflies in our stomach"🦋🦋🦋 but we tend to forget who we actually are. You are unique, amazing and your own person.😍😍😍 Therefore, even if we are waiting on that “partner”; we do that because we want to complete a circle 👨‍👩‍👧👨‍👩‍👧not complete ourselves.    So there are things to be done; 1. Define yourself ; your purpose, your values,your standard a...

Now before you ask a lady out I usually prefer you build a place of friendship You don't just meet a lady today and tomorrow you are asking her out (it really doesn't make sense to me at least get to know her) Relationship is best enjoyed when built from friendship but there are there relationships that could start off before friendship..... Yes but that will be for another day. For now let's work on friendship. Now in building friendship you get to know this person better, what he or she likes, what he or she does at their spare time, the special people in their lives( you can even get to level were you can tell if the person has a boy friend, girl friend or not ) but if not then you can ask. When you are friends you are free with the person and should  not be too quick to ask the person out if he or she is free. But mind you some people fear this stage because they feel they will be friend zoned but it doesn't really work like that. But at the same time I us...

                                             “you were raped, and so ?” These were the words said to me by my friend on a cool evening after listen to my pathetic story. Now, some persons will take that reply as being “harsh”. I had same thought though. But after pondering for a while 🤔🤔 i think it is prudent to say he showed utter care. Here’s the point, some of us have really been through some odd situations while growing up. Been sexually or emotionally abused has probably lead to some negative actions or attitude portrayed by some persons. Now, the fact that you've been through some odd stuffs shouldn't be an excuse for any failure you make in life or a yard stick for you to continue making wrong choices. Yes, it hurts that you were raped by an uncle, aunty or  whoever.....it hurts that you were left all alone to suffer or abandoned......it hurts...

        Ever heard the saying " every church girl just needs a bad guy who loves the Lord."? .........Yeah and these are a few reasons why I think it's true;          Attention : The bad guy we feel has been with ladies and so knows just how to make us feel right by giving attention and so much attention could be one of the ways in which he won those ladies and true to our thoughts, most times it comes true        Beauty: it just kinda happens that the handsome church guys ratio the handsome bad guys is about 2:15. The bad guys just have a way of been so fine. Asin.......         Public show: it also happens that most of the time our bad guys are more exposed to places than the church ones( basically, church- home-concert -school-home) but the bad ones ( club-home-church-party-pool-golf-beach-club). Because of this,they know so many places and people, so we kinda prefer to hang out with them becau...