WILL SHE SAY YES???

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Now before you ask a lady out I usually prefer you build a place of friendship

You don't just meet a lady today and tomorrow you are asking her out (it really doesn't make sense to me at least get to know her)

Relationship is best enjoyed when built from friendship but there are there relationships that could start off before friendship..... Yes but that will be for another day. For now let's work on friendship.

Now in building friendship you get to know this person better, what he or she likes, what he or she does at their spare time, the special people in their lives( you can even get to level were you can tell if the person has a boy friend, girl friend or not ) but if not then you can ask.

When you are friends you are free with the person and should  not be too quick to ask the person out if he or she is free. But mind you some people fear this stage because they feel they will be friend zoned but it doesn't really work like that.

But at the same time I usually warn don't wait forever before you make your move. Be smart, quick and wise to know when you need to shot.

They should be free with you and you would also have observed that they need you.

And lastly but very important don't nurse these feelings for a long time, be sure to confirm on time if she is free, even if you don't pop the question at least you know you have a slot. Just incase she is taken so you can quickly bury those thoughts and move on immediately (very very very important cos some persons have a heart break from a relationship that never started they only assumed and were consumed)

Be smart,  wise, and fast...............

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