YOU'VE BEEN ABUSED AND SO???

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“you were raped, and so ?”
These were the words said to me by my friend on a cool evening after listen to my pathetic story.

Now, some persons will take that reply as being “harsh”. I had same thought though.

But after pondering for a while 🤔🤔 i think it is prudent to say he showed utter care.

Here’s the point,
some of us have really been through some odd situations while growing up.

Been sexually or emotionally abused has probably lead to some negative actions or attitude portrayed by some persons.
Now, the fact that you've been through some odd stuffs shouldn't be an excuse for any failure you make in life or a yard stick for you to continue making wrong choices.
Yes, it hurts that you were raped by an uncle, aunty or  whoever.....it hurts that you were left all alone to suffer or abandoned......it hurts that no one cared about you or thought of you as a being .....oh yes, it all hurts.
But it's not going to make any sense if you don’t  stop throwing yourself a pity party and wake up to reality, to the fact that you owe yourself to make a lemonade out of the lemon that the world have given you.

Someone once said something to me, “you may not be responsible for the decisions that lead you to your current state but you will be responsible for the ones you take afterwards”.
So it's time rise up, wipe those eyes
and look forward into what the future holds. You have a chance to make an amazing sauce out of the tomatoes that has been thrown at you.

It's a brand new day, so take hold of every opportunity.

# Everyday is always an opportunity to achieve something new
#God's got your back
#Lovinglife360
#Phavie love you😍😍😍

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