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Have you ever asked the question “why haven't I met the one or why do I always meet with the ones am not OK with ?”
If you are in that category then this few words would help.

Firstly, s
I want you to take off every of such thoughts for a moment and let's talk about you.
Now I want you to try and make sense of this question, “am I good enough to marry myself?”💍💍

Sometimes we are too crowded with thoughts of "the one" to come that we forget who we actually are . "We just need a someone who would love us for who we are (which we really don't know🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀), someone who would cause butterflies in our stomach"🦋🦋🦋 but we tend to forget who we actually are. You are unique, amazing and your own person.😍😍😍 Therefore, even if we are waiting on that “partner”; we do that because we want to complete a circle 👨‍👩‍👧👨‍👩‍👧not complete ourselves.
   So there are things to be done;

1. Define yourself ; your purpose, your values,your standard and your passion and what you envision your tomorrow to be like ✍✍✍
2. Work ever single day to actualize your tomorrow🏃🏻‍♀🏃🏻‍♀
3. Maintain your values and follow your standard.
4. Ensure constant growth and communication with your heavenly father 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
5. Just when you least expect "the one" would come walking in your defined path. 🏃🏻‍♂🏃🏻‍♂👫

So never for once forget who you are because you are the best thing that has ever happened to you.

Secondly,
The people we “roll” with tend to determine the person we end up with.
For example, if 80% of your friends are pastors, then the tendency that you will marry a pastor is very likely.
We find love from around us, even as you set your standards and values you should “roll” with people with likes of them.
   
I hope this helps someone today. If you like what you just read please do well to visit my blog @Lovinglife360. You will be glad you did.

#You are the best thing that happened to you
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# Good morning dearie
#Phavie always loves you

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