Loving Life 360

Have you ever asked the question “why haven't I met the one or why do I always meet with the ones am not OK with ?” If you are in that category then this few words would help. Firstly, s I want you to take off every of such thoughts for a moment and let's talk about you. Now I want you to try and make sense of this question, “am I good enough to marry myself?”💍💍 Sometimes we are too crowded with thoughts of "the one" to come that we forget who we actually are . "We just need a someone who would love us for who we are (which we really don't know🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀), someone who would cause butterflies in our stomach"🦋🦋🦋 but we tend to forget who we actually are. You are unique, amazing and your own person.😍😍😍 Therefore, even if we are waiting on that “partner”; we do that because we want to complete a circle 👨‍👩‍👧👨‍👩‍👧not complete ourselves.    So there are things to be done; 1. Define yourself ; your purpose, your values,your standard a...

Now before you ask a lady out I usually prefer you build a place of friendship You don't just meet a lady today and tomorrow you are asking her out (it really doesn't make sense to me at least get to know her) Relationship is best enjoyed when built from friendship but there are there relationships that could start off before friendship..... Yes but that will be for another day. For now let's work on friendship. Now in building friendship you get to know this person better, what he or she likes, what he or she does at their spare time, the special people in their lives( you can even get to level were you can tell if the person has a boy friend, girl friend or not ) but if not then you can ask. When you are friends you are free with the person and should  not be too quick to ask the person out if he or she is free. But mind you some people fear this stage because they feel they will be friend zoned but it doesn't really work like that. But at the same time I us...

                                             “you were raped, and so ?” These were the words said to me by my friend on a cool evening after listen to my pathetic story. Now, some persons will take that reply as being “harsh”. I had same thought though. But after pondering for a while 🤔🤔 i think it is prudent to say he showed utter care. Here’s the point, some of us have really been through some odd situations while growing up. Been sexually or emotionally abused has probably lead to some negative actions or attitude portrayed by some persons. Now, the fact that you've been through some odd stuffs shouldn't be an excuse for any failure you make in life or a yard stick for you to continue making wrong choices. Yes, it hurts that you were raped by an uncle, aunty or  whoever.....it hurts that you were left all alone to suffer or abandoned......it hurts...

        Ever heard the saying " every church girl just needs a bad guy who loves the Lord."? .........Yeah and these are a few reasons why I think it's true;          Attention : The bad guy we feel has been with ladies and so knows just how to make us feel right by giving attention and so much attention could be one of the ways in which he won those ladies and true to our thoughts, most times it comes true        Beauty: it just kinda happens that the handsome church guys ratio the handsome bad guys is about 2:15. The bad guys just have a way of been so fine. Asin.......         Public show: it also happens that most of the time our bad guys are more exposed to places than the church ones( basically, church- home-concert -school-home) but the bad ones ( club-home-church-party-pool-golf-beach-club). Because of this,they know so many places and people, so we kinda prefer to hang out with them becau...

     Everyday we arise with expectations, hoping that by the end of the day we come home with results. Yea, for some days it works just fine but for others maybe the reverse. What if just what you anticipated to achieve that day was not forth coming or worse a negative incident was added to the day, what happens then.   Do you put everyone off your list, wear a sad face all night or even till the next day, or do you keep nagging about all that has happened.     There is one thing we are always quick to forget, after we say Lord take charge of my day, that we are no longer in charge of the days activities, He is and so no matter what happens always be conscious of the fact that he knows the thoughts and plans he has for  you, plans of good and not evil to give you an expected end.     So whenever things are not going as planned be quick to say ,"lord I trust you to make all things right and beautiful and with a heart of peace I watch you...

·                   We don’t go into a relationship thinking to see all the good qualities we saw in A replicated in B and expecting the bad qualities in A to be missing in B. life doesn’t always walk that way you could be lucky to find about 70%-80% of the good qualities and even maybe 50% -60% of the flaws. But in the end we keep comparing them to so so and so. We should learn to love persons for who they are and not what we want them to be. Enjoy the good qualities in them and help them modernize their flaws, help them be better and help them overcome their weakness. They need you just as much as you need them. #Enjoy love when you find it #lovinglife360 #Phavie loves you

·                  Sometimes the pain from our past relationships gets to keep us from enjoying our present .we say “am not letting my guard down again so he wouldn’t trade on me” but my dear life doesn’t work like that. If in your past relationship you were sexually abused, heartbroken, and really destroyed then don’t rush into another just yet because you can’t love like that and you will not be able to appreciate true love trust me because to you it doesn’t exist.   So what to do is to first take a break to build a relationship with the word love itself (GOD).                 When you do, this is what happens, he first takes away the pain you feel, giving you a fresh start, then he brings forth to you what actually love is, taking you on a tour with love and when he is done, this is the best part, he places you in the hands of true love to help keep you safe with him. So when you love...

               I watched this movie “COCO” and am sure you’ve watched it too. But there is something striking about that movie. It’s the life after death. To ensure a great life after death you have to be remembered by someone who would be kind enough to put up your photo if they want see you again. After the movie I paused to see if I would survive a year in the other world. In thought of this my mind went to so many others that died yet remembered for the remarkable things they did and even though dead their memory still lives on and I also remembered DORCAS in the bible who was giving a second chance at living because of her good deeds.        I believe you get my gist but if not let me ask it plainly; “ how long would you last in the other world”? “ How many persons would put up your photo just to see you again ”?         I life of purpose gets to answer that question...

             LOVE, a crazy, funny and amazing word. Means so much to some and yet nothing to others. It brings joy to the hearts of some and yet pain to others. A four letter word yet so divers in meaning, so complicated and sometimes confusing yet so understanding. The rich needs it, the poor want it. The older search for it the young longs for it.          Some are still searching for the real meaning of the word and still trying to understand its bounds. Some say if true love is sold in the market they would buy one to prevent heartbreak while some say they would never get involved to prevent heart break.          Oh Love “who in God’s name are you that the world so large seeks you”, even the president needs you. Some say you are cruel, some prefer to use the word wicked, how bad some paint you but yet how colorful you shine in the hearts of some.    ...

Of his fullness have we received grace for grace.  Even greater grace has he given us. GRACE –a person of Jesus Christ has been sent to make our Christian walk a whole lot easier to help us  achieve all we need to. But just as an adopted child of “Dangote” unaware of his inheritance will still find POVERTY a problem. So it is. Grace has been given but we need to spend time in studying and fellowship in order to grasp a full maturity of who we actually  are in Christ-grace.So we can no longer be tossed by very word of doctrine.                                     We grow stress free in Christ when we spend time with him.                                          We unconsciously live up the fruits of the spirit and even  ...

Sometimes little things are the keys to having all. It’s amazing what I discovered from our very popular John 3:16. Here it’s……         “For GOD so love the world that he gave his only son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have ever lasting life”. Now let’s break it down in bits shall we…….         First “for GOD so love the world that he gave…..”-when you love you love completely, with everything and then it makes you give. Giving in this context was GOD’S utmost sacrifice explaining to us that when you love you are willing to sacrifice your very best to help such one as long as it brings out the best in that person. Have you loved someone so much that you spared your all………? It didn’t matter if He (GOD) gave and we didn’t accept, it was worth the shot.          Now the second, “…….whosoever believes in him………..” it doesn’t say if the fine, fair and ...

I Was going through the book “WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES” and would love to share it with you   – Not really a book most persons would to read but it’s a book I would recommend especially if you have a challenge putting up the right esteem in your relationship or even as a single. It would help you build your esteem and enjoy yourself for “who you are” and not what “they want you to be”. Must warn though it’s not religious. So if you are the religious type please don’t but if you want to learn something new then it’s a new day.             BITCH first of all according to Sherry Argov stands for Babe In Total Control of Herself and for a lady to be in control of herself spells being in control of your thoughts, your emotions, your words and actions and being completely responsible. Most times when we find love, we want to do everything to keep it including losing control of our very self and thereby allowing whoever the love is ...

THE GAME CHESS.       Life is amazing, beautiful and enjoyable. One of its beauties is that it offers everyone a chance at WINNING. It’s like the game of Chess, we all appear as Pons, Bishops, Knights, Castle, Kings and Queens. All together we struggle with one aim CHECKMATE (winning) but sometimes we take steps that could knock us off course, get us beaten and because of this we sometimes run to our shells.         But do you know that in chess a Pon started off at one end of the game on getting to the other end of the game can be exchanged for anything including the queen (the most powerful) and that could give you a check mate ? Wow so no matter how little that step is do take it. It may be risky - living as a whole is a risk . So start off and even when you get knocked off, come back again. Don’t stop until you get to the other end of the board. IF ANY ONE CAN,THEN IT’S YOU . Just keep at it and you will get it. ...

The mind works like magic.        Something happened to me some days back. I was transferring my things from one bag to another (ladies pa-lava) in preparation for another day. On getting to school the next day i checked the pen pocket of my bag and it wasn't there and then I concluded that i forgot my pen in my other bag so unknowing to me that the pen was sitting in the bag all day I had to borrow a pen from someone one else and when I got home and tried unpacking my bag I found the pen in the other compartment of my bag.       It was so funny but then I learnt something it which i want to share with you guys today. sometimes we are so fixed on one pattern of life and we adhere so much to it and even when it fails we tell our MINDS that there is no other way and  that’s a big problem  because whatever our mind comes to knowledge of, it doesn't...

Looking Down the history of existence, it seems to be a story line that women often go through a whole lot of unwholesome experiences ranging from sexual scandal and abuses, verbal abuse, emotional and psychological trauma resulting from family break out and a whole lot of issues that goes beyond mere words. Eventually all these form a cocoon in their heart from which they seem to see life and live life. BENT BABIES MAKE BROKEN WOMEN. Low self esteem, emotional insecurities all emerge from this foundational flaws. But... Even broken crayons still have use, broken women can still be fixed, no circumstance can determine a ladies fait beyond the extent she permits it, it's not about what you've been through, it's all about what you do with all you've been through, no addiction can be greater than your CHOICE not to be addicted. I stir up the warrior in you today to rise above that wall that has stayed in your heart all your life, determine the faith of your existence, figh...

A piece to the hurting baby* Oh....! right now, the wound feels so painful, the shoes itch so bad, the stings hurts so badly and the flow of tears just won't stop... No word can fully express how it's feels to be in this state, I wish someone would just understand how miserable it feels here, everyone keep talking from their vague point of view. Can someone try to relate how much of misery life is now? Mhmmm... Tina trying to relate how much pain you are in right now baby. It 's fine, it's okay to play weak now, it's fine pampering yourself, be the baby you have always wish to be, let down those tears, let it flow carrying with it the hurt and pain. I won't tell you to stop crying, just feel free, wet the pillow with the tears........ Are you done crying now?? Wipe your face, suck out the catarrh in your nostril using a piece of handkerchief, stand up from your sitting position.....Life has not ended, there is always hope for those alive, pick up the piece...

Confidence comes naturally with success,but success comes to only those who are confident. So always begin your day with confidence. Rise up and shine like the star you are because you are made for something bigger #.... loving life 360

Enjoy the best of your everyday because you are not coming back to that day so you can as well choose to give it your shot....................it is still loving life 360.