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The phrase “This life no balance” has been topping the charts of recent.  You could walk pass and hear people talking and the next thing you hear is “ this life no balance”. So I decide to find an actual meaning to it.  I discovered that it was used for situations where things didn’t turn out as planned, or especially where people get things that others long for. So it’s more like One man’s meat been another’s poison but this time , this meat has found its way to the hands of the the man who perceives it as poison and vice versa It can really be appalling to find yourself in a situation as that because most times there is nothing we can do to change it. So instead of waiting and wishing that things return to normal, why not see how well you can make use of the poison you received, and just maybe it can’t be used, while not ensure that it destroys the negatives around, instead of allowing it hurt you and yes be sure to shame the devil by making a true lemonade from that lemon....
  WHY WHY WHY  Why would you be willing to go down for a price that’s not yours to take?  Why would you want to kill yourself over a parcel that may never be yours?  Why would you be willing to go down a road you wished you never took just to produce a smile that may never be reflected at you ?  Why are you willing to eat the forbidden fruit even if it means death, just so happiness flows down her cheeks freely? LOVE......the one word that gives meaning to it all. The one willing to sacrifice itself and wanting nothing in return.  The one willing to put others needs before self and willing to cause smiles and happiness on the faces of others no matter the cost. That was the exact same compelling word that moved our Savior and Father to come Die and shed Hos blood for us ........even when we were sinners. LOVE SO AMAZING  Have you said yes to that great love and watched It take great effect and change in you?  #Yes, Jesus loves you # Phavie Loves y...
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  Salvation   Whenever I hear this word there is always joy in my spirit. It’s something that’s too good to be true, how do we explain that in rags we were found attractive, still in the mud someone thought something good can still be produced. It doesn't make sense why he doesn't make it a law, why on earth would you not force something so amazing on your children, the place of free will makes submission so wonderful.   It’s a full story that has to be told and needs to be heard by all. It’s a story of how someone so unworthy was looked upon and not just granted worth but made worthy, sanctified and this is the most exciting part is that even the memories of this unworthiness is take away completely.   I don’t know about you but I sure know I can’t keep calm as this is nothing short of a miracle. Guess what, it gets better. One will think it would require millions to achieve this or at best small change but it’s completely free all it takes is simply BELIEVING. How ...

LOVE

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The word Love. The word love has indeed as most pe ople will say been over emphasised. Every now and then there is a write up on love telling us the meaning and what it does. But forgive if me if I don’t toll the regular path.   Love can mean different things to do many persons, some call it a feeling, some call it an act, some call it chemistry, some say it’s magical and some are yet to find a definition because the can’t explain it and yes a believer would call it God.   The word love indeed is vast and somehow, somewhat can’t be fully talked about but I just want to bring this light to it. Love is not a feeling neither is it something you stumble or fall into.  #Love is a deliberate action and a choice to choose someone as or above yourself without seeking any personal interest. Love doesn't have to revolve around a particular set of persons (family, friends and even the special one) before it is shown, and it doesn't even need to be a special setting before it is appr...

Where has “the LOVE” gone?

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Broken homes are beginning to take the lead in this country and I couldn't help but ask why?  Back in the 60s,70s,80s and even 90s the reverse was the case. You could happily see couples who had lasted 20,30 years and even more with so much excitement on their faces as they are happy to conquer more years together so I couldn't help but ask what changed? Over time I have been made to believe that love is a very important factor in choosing your spouse and so long as you both love each other then you are good to go because you would be able to conquer the hurdles together and sail through deep seas together but I can’t see that happening and I can’t help but ask “WHERE HAS THOU LOVE GONE”. It seems love is actually not all it takes anymore because recently I stumbled on three marriages whose love has gone sour and the partners are willing to hit the road because they are tired and these are couples with children. Am pretty sure the children were conceived because of the love...

CAN CHEATING BE LEGALISED?

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I thought variety is the spice of life, so why is marriage an exception. At every point in life, going for varieties always seem super amazing. For example, having to choose from multiple outfits, shoes and even handbags makes going out exciting. Imagine waking to the same outfit every single day (we can’t stop fasting and praying for another). This seems not to be the case of human relations as we have been told to be stuck with one person for the rest of ones life, all in the name of relationship/marriage. Monotony the last time I checked can be tiring and boring. It feels like repeating the same routine over and over again. I think I want out or better still can cheating be legalised so we can be opened to several options, if you know what I mean. Hmm, these thoughts ran through my head and left me pondering why the great Divinity would prefer one to one and not the usual. Fellowship.......again he said fellowship...that union, the love and commitment that binds, ...