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I thought I was mature until love found me and I became a Baby 😍😍😍 His Love for me is so amazing and I can’t help but allow Him take over every single time, I can’t help but trust His will for my life. He keeps proving Himself every single time and every day I fall over and over and over in love with Him. Love is sweet ooooπŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ No wonder His book calls us His children. We can’t afford to be mature around Him because you would miss out on His Love. Forever you will be my Father and I will be your Baby πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ #God’s love is overwhelming, just be His baby #Phavie loves you
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  So recently I learnt something I believe might be new to some persons as it was to me so I decided to share. This might benefit the “Big spiritual guys” more so if you are one just take a few minutes and go through. Am sure you will be blessed.   So I noticed that most a time we have our big spiritual guys, a whole lot single even at their late 30s and some later than that when compared to the “not so spiritual” and when they are confronted you hear them say they are looking for the one with like purpose, passion, someone who would understand them completely and follow them. If these sounds like am reading your mind then maybe you need to slow down a bit for the next part because those thought might not be entirely needed.  Am going to give a few points to help explain:  Every one has a purpose and potential and while some of us are quick to find ours, some need someone to help them bring theirs out. So if your wife is in this category, you may never discove...

THE BRIDEGROOM

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  So we had a long quarrel for the first time in our relationship and it really was weird. At some point it seemed as though it was going to end because there was silence which was even worse than no communication. The night was long and quiet which was unusual. But then I woke up to his text, which was suppose to be a relief but NO. Trust my ego it wanted more. Then his call came in, how his words “Am sorry” melted my heart and left me speechless made me realise that I was really the one at fault but yet he loved me and forgave me.   I was ashamed for a minute but then with his words he pulled me close reminding me that the flesh at some point in time would always want to show that it still exist but I should be quick to halt it’s words and live freely and now am FREE. I accepted this love, apologised for my inconsistency and now am free.  Reminds me of the love of the bride and the bridegroom. He is always calling out to us, “forget the errors, I love you the same”....
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  How difficult can sustaining a relationship be?   Here I was thinking that when you find the one, the search was over. Just wait until you start seeing his twin brothers start to flood your environs. All the male sense dudes starts trooping in and making you start to ask yourself “Did I say yes too quickly, was he really the one?”. My dear just be sure that if you break that relationship because of those feelings, you will sure break the next one when His “triplet” arrive.  Sustaining a relationship is beyond feelings. It’s about commitment and purpose. When you no longer feel the love, you need to hold on to the word you received, hold on to the reasons why you choose him, why you said you do. It may not be easy trust me, you will meet someone finer, more handsome, smarter, intelligent, better dress sense and might even be an all in one guy but don’t loose focus. For me I decided to do a write up :“ WHY I LOVE YOU”. So whenever I feel this way, I am reminded of my ...

Love and Submission

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  When we think of the word love and submission, a whole lot comes to mind especially for the word love. My main view is not on their definitions but on a part of scripture that brings them together as it relates to marriage.   Ephesians 5:22-25 I found a uniqueness in submission and love coming together and I thought to share. I want speak on the submission primarily.  In choosing husbands, submission on the part of the wife is key because it brings obedience, respect and as well Love. Submission is having direct power and authority and dropping it at the feet of your husband because God says so and it may not be easy but Love from the man goes a long way in making it easier. In choosing a man we are too quick to say we need a friend we can play with, insult and even give a knock on the head without anything happening which on its own is not a crime. You can have a man of same age range, status , class  and so on but be sure that when you are done with the pla...
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  The ROUTINE CALLED CHURCH   It’s Saturday again and as usual our thoughts has included what clothes, shoes and bags to take to church for “church goers” and for the occasional members, they are thinking should I go or not and for the non-goers, it’s another good day for washing, relaxing and even maybe playing Christian songs on it’s highest volume.  Don’t be scared, I’m really not here to increase your church attendance, if for anything, am here to speak to the regular members and help add value to your worship.  The average Christian, always has Sunday planned out with church activities and it has gradually become a routine that is done either without a defined purpose or done out of compulsion from family or from situational issues.  Going to church has to be not just a routine but one with a purpose and an interesting one at that. We go to church to worship together with the saints, a creator who gave His life for you and I so we can live again and...
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  Parenting can feel as easy as giving birth to those cuties and watching them grow but am afraid it’s much more than that. There are rules and principles to abide by If you must achieve good parenting. Yes, some may say our forefathers and mother never read through this principles or had a clue but yet they excelled. The truth is they actually practiced some of this principles unconsciously and applications were a whole lot easier then compared to now.  Times have changed as well as applications of principles for successful parenting. You can’t expect to raise a child the way it was done in the 1980s and achieve success.  Knowledge, technology are fast improving, mechanical ways are fast becoming automatic. Principles are standards but applications must change in order to achieve success. And just in case you are the type that has always lived with the fear of how you would raise your the kids you would be proud of, worry no more.  Laurence Steinberg have give...
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  So some say it’s the month of marching forward but I couldn’t help but ask to where? 🀷🏻‍♀️ It’s not just enough to claim all the bless ings in the month but are you intentional about receiving the blessing from the month. It’s 2nd already and will soon be 31st ......what are your daily plans to ensure you indeed march forward in the month?  Be deliberate about your success, be intentional about your plans. Take daily steps to ensure you match into success. I wish you a blissful month of March.  #Be deliberate into success  # Happy new month  #Phavie loves you 
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 I found out that in every sector of life that one chooses to make headway, He needs to submit to someone. Those leading in the spiritual sphere call them Fathers while those in the Business sphere call them Mentors. Those in the Social sphere call them Role models and the list goes on and on.  For you to achieve success don’t feel too big to learn under someone, the ladder of success you wish to climb has been climbed by someone. Be wise and save time.  #Be wise and save time  #Phavie cares😍😍
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  LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX.   The word sex is one of the most popular words in our modern day activities. Through many variants, it is heard in most songs; heard among peers; shown in several movies, and apparently has come to stay with us. So we are going to be discussing a few things we should note about sex that are very paramount to a believer. Is sex a sin before God?  First, let’s look at the word sex scripturally. The first thing to note here is that the word sex was not clearly used in the NKJV of the Bible instead as it was replaced with  "knew or lay with"  According to the law of first mention, the first time the word knew (as a euphemism to sex) was used in the Bible was in Genesis 4 vs 1....... “and Adam knew his wife Eve.......(Gen 4:1) Going back to the question, is sex a sin before God? In Genesis 1 vs 28 “. . . and God blessed them and said be fruitful and multiply . . .” Note that God wasn't referring to animals. He was talking to Adam and Eve. So ...