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 So recently I learnt something I believe might be new to some persons as it was to me so I decided to share. This might benefit the “Big spiritual guys” more so if you are one just take a few minutes and go through. Am sure you will be blessed. 


So I noticed that most a time we have our big spiritual guys, a whole lot single even at their late 30s and some later than that when compared to the “not so spiritual” and when they are confronted you hear them say they are looking for the one with like purpose, passion, someone who would understand them completely and follow them. If these sounds like am reading your mind then maybe you need to slow down a bit for the next part because those thought might not be entirely needed. 


Am going to give a few points to help explain: 


  1. Every one has a purpose and potential and while some of us are quick to find ours, some need someone to help them bring theirs out. So if your wife is in this category, you may never discover her while you await her potential until you actually draw close, help her bring them out. 


  1. Apart from potentials found in every human, we have other make up and components E.g feelings, social living etc. So while you look for a purpose filled being, are you set for the complete package? So you don’t miss your purpose filled wife when you see the other side. Having in mind that marriage on its own is fulfilling purpose beyond our individual purpose. What matters most is can we together, with our extra baggages help each other in getting to destiny and as well ENJOYING FAMILY RELATIONSHIP? You can’t enjoy a complete function if you keep visiting just one side(purpose). 


  1. Learn to loosen up big man. Even Jesus ate with sinners. So why would you as mere mortal keep a list of a lady who is holier than angels as your wife. You can obviously not find her in this world, you have to wait for the angels. Every date is a meeting and every conversation is either an interview to see how well she has grown in her walk with God or an empowerment seminar to ensure she doesn’t slack. These things are not bad in themselves but we are humans and must sure relate as one. You always see joke times and play times as a waste of time and sexual talks are completely unholy. “No whala, the wedding of the bride and the bridegroom will soon happen again just ensure you don’t miss that one ooo.... very important.”


  1. Lastly, I saw a Philippine movie and in the movie the guy was asked what should be most important to a man and he replied HIS LOVE, HIS FAMILY and HIS PRINCIPLES. Recently I thought about it and was thinking maybe he was wrong because he didn’t add his purpose but I found out he isn’t. Before a man can have HIS LOVE, FAMILY and PRINCIPLES in check, it only means that man has found purpose and He is working right in it. 


So dearly beloved while we go for the big things, let’s always remember that the small thing are most important because they in a whole make the big things. 


#Enjoy the small things 

#Phavie loves you 

#Loving life 360 

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