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 How difficult can sustaining a relationship be? 


Here I was thinking that when you find the one, the search was over. Just wait until you start seeing his twin brothers start to flood your environs. All the male sense dudes starts trooping in and making you start to ask yourself “Did I say yes too quickly, was he really the one?”. My dear just be sure that if you break that relationship because of those feelings, you will sure break the next one when His “triplet” arrive. 


Sustaining a relationship is beyond feelings. It’s about commitment and purpose. When you no longer feel the love, you need to hold on to the word you received, hold on to the reasons why you choose him, why you said you do. It may not be easy trust me, you will meet someone finer, more handsome, smarter, intelligent, better dress sense and might even be an all in one guy but don’t loose focus. For me I decided to do a write up :“ WHY I LOVE YOU”. So whenever I feel this way, I am reminded of my reasons for saying I do and it helps me maintain focus and commitment. It helps me fix the love and the rest is till death do us part. 


#Sustaining a relationship 

#Phavie loves you 

#lovinglife360


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