Loving Life 360

“I WANT TO TEACH MY CHILD SEX”.......a statement like this is hardly heard in this part of the world so, imagine the look on my friends face when she saw me reading a book with that title. Sex of all things to teach your child,............well yea SEX. I believe this book is of very great importance because; Sex is a word that cannot be done away with especially in this part of the world. It’s found in almost every lyrics, most novels and also lips of teens. So if you don’t talk about it be sure your kids would learn about it either way. The topic sex is taught from various beliefs and different perspectives. What you would consider not appropriate might actually be a “no big deal for the next person” so am sure you would want to be careful the kind of perspective your child presents with. Kids are quick to learning things especially stuffs like this. They are usually open to informations from friends, classmates and even their teachers. You might be surprise what they...

First of all the word language is a means of communication between a group of persons or a community while love is a strong feeling of affection between two persons ( this definition is for the sake of this teaching). Therefore one can say that a love language would be a means of communicating strong feelings of affection between two persons. It has been discovered that everyone has a love language ( some could have more than one) which the lame man would call a “soft spot” and in order to express love to individuals effectively we need to know their love language in order to really get them to feel the love we are trying to get to them.    In marriages today the find couples who are frustrated because they no longer feel loved by their spouse and even when they try showing love they don’t get appreciated. This is because a Chinese man saying I love you to an Igbo woman he loves so much, even though it is said from a genuine heart , will never get a thank you becaus...

There is a question ringing in my heart and I want us to discuss this together. Here it is: WHO IS THE BOY CHILD? I think biology calls him the one with the outstanding Y gene chromosome,  Society calls him the brave one and away from errors, Religion says he is the protector, provider, and defender of the girl child, Family calls him the head above everything and everyone, and so even when he is the tenth child in the presence of nine girls, he is still the head. With so much expected of this single creature, I start to wonder does it mean they are not expected to have emotions or better still not expected to be hurt, abused, betrayed, or bittered?       Every day we keep seeing new NGO’S advocating for the girl child. “hey sweetie if you are abused just let me know and I will handle it”, “who is that animal that did this?”, “I promise you he won’t go unpunished”, “men are so arrogant and selfish and always wanting what’s best for them so we need to be...

Sometimes when it seems to be like we are at our worst moments🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀ and we wish we never existed or did the things we did, I think it would be wise to first take a pause🙋🏻🙋🏻🙋🏻 and count all your blessing one by one. if possible write out your achievements over the past years✍✍✍✍ and remind yourself of how amazing you can be and still are😃😃😃 One little failure is not enough to make you forget the winner that you have always been and will always be. So brace yourself, dust yourself up and find a courage to live again and be that super man😎😎😎 that you are meant to be .........it's all inside you. 🥳🥳🥳 If you are inspired, please leave a comment in the comment box below and please subscribe. Thanks for reading. # Just look deeper # Phavie loves you 😘😘😘

Today just like yesterday is here again but yesterday is gone and forgotten same as the day before, it's never coming back, and soon would be the same as today. All that couldn't be achieved will have to compulsoryly be moved to the day after  and the more the activities are moved the more the days are lost. 😔😔😔 it's usually easy to say "oh that, i will do it tomorrow" but we keep forgetting that tomorrow never actually ends. I almost couldn't believe that July is here but here it is and slowly the year runs by.........🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀ it's morning again 😃😃and you can choose to agree with yourself to start that project, start that business, start that book work e.t.c. Because TIME they say waits for no man.🤩🤩🤩  You can still choose to actualize it tomorrow though but i only wonder when that is.................🤔🤔🤔🤔 # The unending tomorrow  # Phavie loves you 😘😘😘