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Good morning my ladies. Trust we are doing well. In the spirit of the weekend, there’s something I would love to share with us. Here it is; Been attractive is not all a woman needs to get a good man. You can be attractive and yet be giving what I call a “RED light” to all single men around you. In order to get a good man, you need to shine what I call your “GREEN LIGHT” and I will explain what I mean by this in the next paragraph. The term “Green light” is what I use to refer to a lady’s readiness to mingle and there are certain qualities that is expected in all ladies but more so “my single ladies” which can be used to show case this green light; 1. Be approachable: As a single lady your facial appearance is very important. Always wear a smile. A smile always says “you can talk to me, trust I can be of help” 😁😁😁😁 2. Be polite: Been polite as a single lady can’t be over emphasised. You don’t meet a man for the first time and you respond harshly in the name of he is not my friend, my sister how many of the friends you have now are asking you for marriage? 🙄🙄🙄. My sister loosen up make man see you marry. #on a lighter note 😁 3. Be friendly : This goes side by side with being polite. Be willing to make new sensible friends. Don’t shut yourself away from the world because your hubby is somewhere in it. 4. Treat people nicely: Yes, that’s all I have to say on this point. Ok let me add this, Treat people REALLY nice because like my friend would say, the person you are looking for is four persons away from you and you don’t know what number the person in front of you might be so just be NICE. 5. Learn to develop yourself: This can’t be over emphasised. While you wait don’t waste yourself. Enjoy all that you are and have been given by God . Be the best version of yourself who knows your hubby might be found in the process but if not, still be the lady every man would be proud to have by his side at all times. Will stop here for. Trust you had a great time? See you in my next post. 😘 #Shining the green light #Be the best version of yourself #Phavie loves you #Loving life 360

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