Loving Life 360

  So we had a long quarrel for the first time in our relationship and it really was weird. At some point it seemed as though it was going to end because there was silence which was even worse than no communication. The night was long and quiet which was unusual. But then I woke up to his text, which was suppose to be a relief but NO. Trust my ego it wanted more. Then his call came in, how his words “Am sorry” melted my heart and left me speechless made me realise that I was really the one at fault but yet he loved me and forgave me.   I was ashamed for a minute but then with his words he pulled me close reminding me that the flesh at some point in time would always want to show that it still exist but I should be quick to halt it’s words and live freely and now am FREE. I accepted this love, apologised for my inconsistency and now am free.  Reminds me of the love of the bride and the bridegroom. He is always calling out to us, “forget the errors, I love you the same”....

  How difficult can sustaining a relationship be?   Here I was thinking that when you find the one, the search was over. Just wait until you start seeing his twin brothers start to flood your environs. All the male sense dudes starts trooping in and making you start to ask yourself “Did I say yes too quickly, was he really the one?”. My dear just be sure that if you break that relationship because of those feelings, you will sure break the next one when His “triplet” arrive.  Sustaining a relationship is beyond feelings. It’s about commitment and purpose. When you no longer feel the love, you need to hold on to the word you received, hold on to the reasons why you choose him, why you said you do. It may not be easy trust me, you will meet someone finer, more handsome, smarter, intelligent, better dress sense and might even be an all in one guy but don’t loose focus. For me I decided to do a write up :“ WHY I LOVE YOU”. So whenever I feel this way, I am reminded of my ...

  When we think of the word love and submission, a whole lot comes to mind especially for the word love. My main view is not on their definitions but on a part of scripture that brings them together as it relates to marriage.   Ephesians 5:22-25 I found a uniqueness in submission and love coming together and I thought to share. I want speak on the submission primarily.  In choosing husbands, submission on the part of the wife is key because it brings obedience, respect and as well Love. Submission is having direct power and authority and dropping it at the feet of your husband because God says so and it may not be easy but Love from the man goes a long way in making it easier. In choosing a man we are too quick to say we need a friend we can play with, insult and even give a knock on the head without anything happening which on its own is not a crime. You can have a man of same age range, status , class  and so on but be sure that when you are done with the pla...

  The ROUTINE CALLED CHURCH   It’s Saturday again and as usual our thoughts has included what clothes, shoes and bags to take to church for “church goers” and for the occasional members, they are thinking should I go or not and for the non-goers, it’s another good day for washing, relaxing and even maybe playing Christian songs on it’s highest volume.  Don’t be scared, I’m really not here to increase your church attendance, if for anything, am here to speak to the regular members and help add value to your worship.  The average Christian, always has Sunday planned out with church activities and it has gradually become a routine that is done either without a defined purpose or done out of compulsion from family or from situational issues.  Going to church has to be not just a routine but one with a purpose and an interesting one at that. We go to church to worship together with the saints, a creator who gave His life for you and I so we can live again and...