Loving Life 360

 Can I forgive and forget?  This is very common question we get to ask ourselves especially after something terrible is done to us and our Great book says Forgive.  Well the answer is a Yes and No.  No because we can’t actually format our memories and make ourselves forget every single detail of that event but YES we can, when we can tell the same story and not fill any hurt and pain. Forgiving and forgetting doesn’t literally mean forgiving and forgetting but forgiving and letting go. Letting go of the hurt, the pain, the agony you feel in your heart when you think of the incident.  When you can successfully  that painful story without feeling any pain, then you have indeed forgiven and forgotten and gradually you would seem not to remember consciously.   It’s not about the memories but what feelings accompany the memories.  #life is indeed beautiful, don’t waste it living in unforgiveness #Lovinglife360 #Phavie care

  So right from secondary school we all have those little fantasies of having a good car, owning a mad-ass duplex and just living the good life. So what happens at 25, 35 and even 45 and we still live in a 2-bedroom apartment, probably own a small car or maybe none and it seems as tho we probably have failed. Well, am not here to scream at you that “you are not a failure”, “Just wake up”, “Push forward”................ No!!!  That’s not why am here, am actually here to help you understand that if those little dreams are the only ones you built your life on, then you need to have a rethink. Life actually consists of more than material things and should be lived as such. We are made for a larger purpose. We are created to be channels of God’s potentials. We are created to reach out to humanity and serve humanity in every way that we can and the beautiful thing about this is, you can’t do this and at the end, not achieve those little dreams you fantasied about. How much better ca...

This is usually a question whose answer we leave most times to be determined by things and situations around us. How we feel about ourselves should not be determined by actions or circumstances. Not even friends or family has the right to make you feel bad about yourself. If there is something you need to change or an attitude you need to adjust then do so but while in the process always know you are the best thing that has ever happened to anyone you come across  Always feel good about yourself because you are unique, special and a blessing to your generation and most importantly I love you special  #You are special 😎😎😎😎 #Phavie loves you 😍😍😍😍 #Lovinglife360

The phrase “This life no balance” has been topping the charts of recent.  You could walk pass and hear people talking and the next thing you hear is “ this life no balance”. So I decide to find an actual meaning to it.  I discovered that it was used for situations where things didn’t turn out as planned, or especially where people get things that others long for. So it’s more like One man’s meat been another’s poison but this time , this meat has found its way to the hands of the the man who perceives it as poison and vice versa It can really be appalling to find yourself in a situation as that because most times there is nothing we can do to change it. So instead of waiting and wishing that things return to normal, why not see how well you can make use of the poison you received, and just maybe it can’t be used, while not ensure that it destroys the negatives around, instead of allowing it hurt you and yes be sure to shame the devil by making a true lemonade from that lemon....

  WHY WHY WHY  Why would you be willing to go down for a price that’s not yours to take?  Why would you want to kill yourself over a parcel that may never be yours?  Why would you be willing to go down a road you wished you never took just to produce a smile that may never be reflected at you ?  Why are you willing to eat the forbidden fruit even if it means death, just so happiness flows down her cheeks freely? LOVE......the one word that gives meaning to it all. The one willing to sacrifice itself and wanting nothing in return.  The one willing to put others needs before self and willing to cause smiles and happiness on the faces of others no matter the cost. That was the exact same compelling word that moved our Savior and Father to come Die and shed Hos blood for us ........even when we were sinners. LOVE SO AMAZING  Have you said yes to that great love and watched It take great effect and change in you?  #Yes, Jesus loves you # Phavie Loves y...

  Salvation   Whenever I hear this word there is always joy in my spirit. It’s something that’s too good to be true, how do we explain that in rags we were found attractive, still in the mud someone thought something good can still be produced. It doesn't make sense why he doesn't make it a law, why on earth would you not force something so amazing on your children, the place of free will makes submission so wonderful.   It’s a full story that has to be told and needs to be heard by all. It’s a story of how someone so unworthy was looked upon and not just granted worth but made worthy, sanctified and this is the most exciting part is that even the memories of this unworthiness is take away completely.   I don’t know about you but I sure know I can’t keep calm as this is nothing short of a miracle. Guess what, it gets better. One will think it would require millions to achieve this or at best small change but it’s completely free all it takes is simply BELIEVING. How ...

The word Love. The word love has indeed as most pe ople will say been over emphasised. Every now and then there is a write up on love telling us the meaning and what it does. But forgive if me if I don’t toll the regular path.   Love can mean different things to do many persons, some call it a feeling, some call it an act, some call it chemistry, some say it’s magical and some are yet to find a definition because the can’t explain it and yes a believer would call it God.   The word love indeed is vast and somehow, somewhat can’t be fully talked about but I just want to bring this light to it. Love is not a feeling neither is it something you stumble or fall into.  #Love is a deliberate action and a choice to choose someone as or above yourself without seeking any personal interest. Love doesn't have to revolve around a particular set of persons (family, friends and even the special one) before it is shown, and it doesn't even need to be a special setting before it is appr...