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I WANT TO TEACH MY CHILD SEX

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“I WANT TO TEACH MY CHILD SEX”.......a statement like this is hardly heard in this part of the world so, imagine the look on my friends face when she saw me reading a book with that title. Sex of all things to teach your child,............well yea SEX. I believe this book is of very great importance because; Sex is a word that cannot be done away with especially in this part of the world. It’s found in almost every lyrics, most novels and also lips of teens. So if you don’t talk about it be sure your kids would learn about it either way. The topic sex is taught from various beliefs and different perspectives. What you would consider not appropriate might actually be a “no big deal for the next person” so am sure you would want to be careful the kind of perspective your child presents with. Kids are quick to learning things especially stuffs like this. They are usually open to informations from friends, classmates and even their teachers. You might be surprise what they...

LOVE LANGUAGES

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First of all the word language is a means of communication between a group of persons or a community while love is a strong feeling of affection between two persons ( this definition is for the sake of this teaching). Therefore one can say that a love language would be a means of communicating strong feelings of affection between two persons. It has been discovered that everyone has a love language ( some could have more than one) which the lame man would call a “soft spot” and in order to express love to individuals effectively we need to know their love language in order to really get them to feel the love we are trying to get to them.    In marriages today the find couples who are frustrated because they no longer feel loved by their spouse and even when they try showing love they don’t get appreciated. This is because a Chinese man saying I love you to an Igbo woman he loves so much, even though it is said from a genuine heart , will never get a thank you becaus...