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Have you ever asked the question “why haven't I met the one or why do I always meet with the ones am not OK with ?” If you are in that category then this few words would help. Firstly, s I want you to take off every of such thoughts for a moment and let's talk about you. Now I want you to try and make sense of this question, “am I good enough to marry myself?”💍💍 Sometimes we are too crowded with thoughts of "the one" to come that we forget who we actually are . "We just need a someone who would love us for who we are (which we really don't know🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀), someone who would cause butterflies in our stomach"🦋🦋🦋 but we tend to forget who we actually are. You are unique, amazing and your own person.😍😍😍 Therefore, even if we are waiting on that “partner”; we do that because we want to complete a circle 👨‍👩‍👧👨‍👩‍👧not complete ourselves.    So there are things to be done; 1. Define yourself ; your purpose, your values,your standard a...

WILL SHE SAY YES???

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Now before you ask a lady out I usually prefer you build a place of friendship You don't just meet a lady today and tomorrow you are asking her out (it really doesn't make sense to me at least get to know her) Relationship is best enjoyed when built from friendship but there are there relationships that could start off before friendship..... Yes but that will be for another day. For now let's work on friendship. Now in building friendship you get to know this person better, what he or she likes, what he or she does at their spare time, the special people in their lives( you can even get to level were you can tell if the person has a boy friend, girl friend or not ) but if not then you can ask. When you are friends you are free with the person and should  not be too quick to ask the person out if he or she is free. But mind you some people fear this stage because they feel they will be friend zoned but it doesn't really work like that. But at the same time I us...