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So I was on board to Lagos and on arriving Ore, as usual our bus pulled over so we can ease ourselves and also purchase whatever we wanted. So like the others I went inside to ease myself and on exiting the cafeteria, a young man walked up to me and asked me to please patronise them since it was morning. “Am so sorry sir, I really don’t need anything, and am not even with money to purchase anything” I replied and even if I wanted anything it would be something hot because I had a cough and was feeling a bit feverish that morning but then he insisted. “Even if it’s a bottle of water or Fanta, it would mean a lot to us”. After much persuasion I was about settling for a bottle of Fanta because there was no way I would get something hot here. As I made way to purchase the Fanta I said to man “sincerely what I would have loved was a cup of hot tea” immediately he told the girl at the other side of the counter to quickly make me a cup of hot tea. “Wow who would have thought that I would get a cup of hot tea at Ore” but such is life. Most times we are afraid to let out our hearts, desires and plans the actual way we want them because we feel people might say we are self centred, inconsiderate and even “big-eyed”. But who says we must compromise because of what we think people will say or how they will feel? We may even be surprised at what we would get when we actually let out our hearts. No matter what it is, always feel free to live u, be you and demand for what is yours from life and you might really be shocked at the amazing result life will present to you #Feel free to live you #Phavie loves you

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