Loving Life 360

 Can I forgive and forget?  This is very common question we get to ask ourselves especially after something terrible is done to us and our Great book says Forgive.  Well the answer is a Yes and No.  No because we can’t actually format our memories and make ourselves forget every single detail of that event but YES we can, when we can tell the same story and not fill any hurt and pain. Forgiving and forgetting doesn’t literally mean forgiving and forgetting but forgiving and letting go. Letting go of the hurt, the pain, the agony you feel in your heart when you think of the incident.  When you can successfully  that painful story without feeling any pain, then you have indeed forgiven and forgotten and gradually you would seem not to remember consciously.   It’s not about the memories but what feelings accompany the memories.  #life is indeed beautiful, don’t waste it living in unforgiveness #Lovinglife360 #Phavie care

  So right from secondary school we all have those little fantasies of having a good car, owning a mad-ass duplex and just living the good life. So what happens at 25, 35 and even 45 and we still live in a 2-bedroom apartment, probably own a small car or maybe none and it seems as tho we probably have failed. Well, am not here to scream at you that “you are not a failure”, “Just wake up”, “Push forward”................ No!!!  That’s not why am here, am actually here to help you understand that if those little dreams are the only ones you built your life on, then you need to have a rethink. Life actually consists of more than material things and should be lived as such. We are made for a larger purpose. We are created to be channels of God’s potentials. We are created to reach out to humanity and serve humanity in every way that we can and the beautiful thing about this is, you can’t do this and at the end, not achieve those little dreams you fantasied about. How much better ca...